a fifo wife {fifo life: a few things}

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Its cool here this morning and I’m having trouble sitting here in the one spot and I am tempted that I should go back to bed and curl up with the blanket citing isn’t that what holidays are for but then my husband isn’t on holidays and so there goes that feeling of entitlement…I swear I think too much.

How was your weekend? Mine weekend went by in a flash I had the markets this weekend I set up my stall and because the weather was good people flocked in their hundreds and it was wonderful. I met some wonderful people and a couple out walking their pet goose Skuppers. It was a glorious day seriously was. Made even more glorious by the hug another stall holder gave me. She works hard and so I told her clever she was for making all the clothes she sold..she hugged me in return..whole heartedly..It was nice and put me on cloud nine for the rest of the day.

My kids have gone to their grandparents in Darwin for few days I haven’t told anyone because I feel spoilt. They as most know don’t live here where I am; I have no family here and so they must travel to them or they to me as my parents and children get older the visits more frequent. Needless to say I am alone and I said to my husband this is what is would be like if we had had no kids…I got a full night sleep but the house is quiet so quiet I’m trying to enjoy the quiet but you can get lost in the quiet.

Anyway its the last day of June tomorrow marks half way through the year and the start of a new financal year these are the few things running through my head.

1. I just read there is 177 days until Christmas…golly gee is not what I said.

2. I am dog sitting my neighbours dog…Im currently trying to teach her not to chase the chickens..thats as easy as training a horse to talk.

3. Does anyone else look forward to tax time like I do? It’s like a life line to pay the insurance, council rates and top up the savings account.

4. I ran the road today 3 kilometres I know not a far but a massive achievement for me and my plated knee.

5. Your horoscope for the week here.

6. Oliva Palmeros wedding dress here.

7. A tattoo on the side of her head here.

8. 12 budget ideas for freshening up your home here.

9. Do you believe in Elves? Here.

10. A twelve-year olds invention to stop babies being left in cars here.

Have a great week lovelies,

xDeb

 

a fifo wife {fifo life: real life fifo: The toll of a DIDO miner }

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For Nicole happy birthday with love always Travis..

The Toll of DIDO Mining.

Some of you may or may not know this but eight days ago I packed my bags and left my wife. It was not an easy decision but I keep telling myself it’s the right thing to do. And it hurts so much more knowing that I will not see my three beautiful children. At ages 6, 4, & 2 they barely understand why Daddy has gone. (Will they ever forgive me when they’re older?) I ask myself every day, every, single, day, why did I do it? The answer is always the same. I love my wife with such hopeless passion I will do anything for her.

I am a DIDO miner. I don’t want to be away from home but this is the best life I can give my family. Almost a decade has passed since I started mining. I’ve been to breaking point countless times. Isolation. Frustration. Hopelessness. Depression. When it creeps up it hits hard – and it’s savage. I’ve chosen to be a DIDO miner so I deserve this.

Returning home could melt any man’s heart. The car pulls in the driveway. Before I have time to stretch my legs and get my bags I hear thumping and barking from inside. The brand new front door is smashed open and three squealing children and two dogs run frantically toward me. My beautiful wife waits patiently for the welcoming party to burn off their loving enthusiasm. I’m surrounded by love and happiness once again. I’ve chosen to be a DIDO miner so I deserve this.

The price of DIDO/FIFO mining is high but I’ll pay the toll with whatever it takes.

For All Eternity

Moose

a fifo wife {a fifo life: a few things}

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The weekend well it was gone in a flash and now here we are a few days until the weekend for us is truely over a start date given and the bags are sitting by the door. Its bitter-sweet that phone call but here we are I am sitting whilst the same chorus runs true do you think I will need this will I need that? Its the same chorus for the past 14 years the irritation it once caused because I was being left behind is now one of amusement after 14 years you would have thought we might be more organised but it appears we are not and nor will will we ever be but I really like that.

The sun came out this weekend glorious it was we soaked up that vitamin D like it was the last sunny day on offer. Linen, pillows, rugs and doonas were thrown into the sun to air and at night they came in with that sun smell like freshly baked cotton..along with fresh sheets there is no better way to sleep..

So with the weekend being over husband starting his chorus these are the few things running through my head.

  1. A friend has cancerous mass lesion in her breast its deep inside her breast so there was no lump just a mammogram picked it up if you are over forty take advantage of the free breast screening available to you. Have a look here.
  2. Why has this happened she asked me? What’s the lesson both of us are big believers in lessons because you need to take care of you it’s a sign that we need to take better care of ourselves.
  3. I met the loveliest family this week and of course they were a DIDO family naturally. I told them my life story in fifteen minutes. I was desperate for adult conversation.
  4. Its fly out day the weekend is over Im a little ho hum about it…typically as Mondays are.
  5. We have been living in dust for a week. I just want somewhere clean to sit.
  6. Such an interesting story here.
  7. I have always found the practice of foot binding so interesting here.
  8. The BFG is going to be a movie my kids are going to go nuts here.
  9. How far the phone has come here.
  10. I love churros recipe here you have to try.

Ps Chceckout this new story time app here.

{image and recipe here with thanks}

 xx Deb

 

 

 

 

 

a fifo wife {fifo life: real life fifo: Melinda}

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Was there a reason you started FIFO? I.e. deposit for a house, lifestyle. Or where you single what was your reaction when telling women about your roster? Did you talk about it before starting FIFO (as a couple) or the relationship? How long has FIFO been part of your relationship? Was there a time limit? Has that happened?

I’d just gotten out of a relationship and my parents had moved from perth to Tom Price, So I moved up to be with them, I was getting a few casual jobs,  and sometimes working 16 hours from retail to cleaning to babysitting, I had applied up at the public mess, and my mother kept running into one of the supervisors, and I finally had an interview, they offered me the chance to go FIFO (and to get back to perth), and I took it, So after being in Tom Price 6 months I moved back to Perth and house shared with people. As I was still “fresh” out of a long relationship, I had a couple of flings, mainly with other fifo people as we had similar weeks off, but nothing really stable.

I met Jason online, as I’d gone online to meet other FIFO people, Jason was working in perth, and we started talking and jut clicked. I was working a 5 week swing at that stage and I was almost finished when I got told that a lot of people were getting cut, heres a weeks pay, see you later. Good news for Jaso really, over the next 4 months Jason and I worked through going from job to job, I hated it, I finally took a stand and made a brave attempt by getting a sign saying “I NEED A JOB” with a few qual’s on it and my number, it made the local paper and I got a job selling tiles, Just as my add on the front page of the local came out, I got a call from the Sunday Times, asking if I could do an interview, I jumped at the chance, purely to let people know its not all fun and games with mining, people do get made redundant! The Sunday times came out, and I had messages, phonecalls, and when id just thought it had ended, a company called, they’d seen my article in the paper and wanted me! I sent through my resume, they emailed back a few days later saying they were going ahead and organising all training (4WD, Small Fire, Lockholders ect) I started with them about 5 weeks later, as I’d booked a holiday and it took a while processing things. Jason understood, this time going back fifo, doing a 4/1 roster, it was for a house deposit, I was nearing my second swing, the end of the project was coming so close, I got pulled into the office at the end of my shift before flying out the next day, “good luck and we’ll hopefully see you for the onslow project early next year”! Back into the pool I went, so I took a dive and flew to tom price as my parents are still here, things were starting to pick up and I secured work, working residential through a recruitment company doing some holiday leave with the promise of a TA position after, Ive been put through working with heights, confined space ect and forklift to follow, Being residential means that if I want to go to perth to see Jason, I have to fly myself, so this stint, ill be doing 6 weeks away from him, im working 6 days on, 6 off, but ive had training on my days off, so its been working well!

What do you like best about FIFO

Money, its got the long hours, so the money comes in a lot faster then working on the same rate in Perth, I like the roster, having a whole week off, as it’s a holiday. When I was working for monodelphous I did 4/1, the RDO days were great, half the guys were so great to work with, as we’re all in the same boat, working away from loved ones, you have to have fun to make time go faster! At the end of the day, its all about money!

What do you find so-so/tricky/hilariously bad about FIFO? What would change if you had a magic wand?

Going from contract to contract, some of the rosters are bad, some sites don’t have anything, yet some have it all!  Some of the guys you come across are dead dumb stupid and you know a relative got them here, some are the smartest of the bunch!

If I could change the rules, it’d be more accepting of people who don’t have as much exp and be willing to give it to them, and not having your whole family on site, it’s a bit unfair!

 Do you find you have trouble balancing your time off ie. You, partner and kids (How do you stay connected to your family when you’re away?)

Jason works mon to fri and we struggle being able to get a day off so we can see more of each other when im off, it hurts a lot, but we cope with the use of  facebook, texts and facetime (Skype) when im away.

How do you handle fitting back into routine? 

Not going and gauging on maccas, eating in moderation when your away at camp is hard too, moderation really, once you’ve caught up on your sleep its time to go back to work, my body’s great in a way I can settle back into normal days off and then flick back to work, there are a few days readjusting, as when you come off shift you want to wake up at 6am, then its 8 or 9am normally. Its body clock really!

How do you manage life away do you have a routine sleep, eating, exercise and personal space issues at camp?

Its all about self control, everything in moderation, I was finishing at 5.30, Id be at the gym by 6, dinner before 7.30, on a non gym day I’d shower straight after work, have dinner by 6.30 maybe a drink before with the guys, then you make your calls, do your washing and if your lucky, watch some tv, then its off to bed by 9 – 10pm before a 5am wake up! I put photos of Jason and I in my room, I took a light blanket he had bought me up and a cute teddy to put on my bed to “look after me” as Jason said. Just little things like that, helped me cope doing 4 weeks away from him a lot better.

What’s the most surprising thing your partner has managed whilst you’re away? ( This question is very much optional but public bragging about your partner is such a nice thing..)

Jason become a lot more stronger and independent, he moved all my things to his place with his parents, so we could save more money and I moved out of the sharehouse. He’s learnt to do a lot more for himself, and he values the time we spend together more. He’s become more romantic, he surprises me with little presents and a cute message almost each morning. Hes my soulmate of a reason!

What advice would you give to newbie’s about coping with FIFO.

Its hard, Its not all its cracked up to be. You’ve got to be willing to loose weekends, miss out on a lot of things and if your with someone, go above and beyond to make it work. Its hard, but its worth it in the end. Stay Strong!

More real life stories with:

Kieran 21/7 days  here.

Matt 4/4 weeks here.

Jen 2/2 weeks here

Kathryn 5/5 weeks here

Melissa 28/7 days here.

Jessie 26/9 days here.

Alyica 12/12weeks here.

{[image with thanks to here}

a fifo wife {fifo life: still life perspective: Australian Troop Camp}

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The flight to work..
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The arrivals hall..

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Checking the work uniform

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The camp

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Another day down.

U.S. Soldiers Continue Patrols Outside FOB Shank In Afghanistan

But least the view is nice.

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A valute for a room..but at least its not a prison cell.

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Incase you or your family needs support.

They are deployed from their families for up to six months often doing stints back to back and its part of their job its what they signed up for they know that. Their camps are simple. Food is even simpler there is no seafood every second night here. Intrestingly enough their rooms are vaults because part of their job expectation is that someone will try and kill them for the work they are doing..

{Images with thanks here and with thanks to the Australians still deployed}