My boys are 6, 4 and 3 years old. They are little boys in every way from pretending to be spider man to playing basketball but when I ask them for their help they are men in every way and I couldn’t be prouder. Its a side effect from this FIFO lifestyle that they occasional have to step up and stop being little boys and instead be little men. Its not one I really took note of until this past weekend when it was just us, a handsaw and a tree.
Stepping up and playing a mans role is not something I ask of them often but when I do without fail they are there with all their might. They fore go their play with their friends up the road and help mummy shift furniture, mow lawns, hang washing and this past weekend chop down a fair size tree. Always without a whinge or a whine. They do it not for pocket money because frankly I don’t believe in it…yet..they do it because while daddy is away making money for us they are the men of the house and its their job to help out mummy anyway they can.
I dont worry that Im asking to much because when playing with their friends you cant tell the difference between them and their mates. B1 is usually hanging from a tree whilst b3 is roaring in your face like a dinosaur but place them in a room full of adults they are different boys they are little men. This lifestyles odd little side effect is producing independent, strong, fore thinking, considerate and helpful little men.What can be bad about that?
They make my heart sing. Truly they do.
Have a lovely Wednesday
xX Deb.