Following more of our real life FIFO heres Fred’s story..much thanks Fred..
My names Fred Ive been in the offshore for almost 1 year working as a cook. I have 2 young children and engaged to my partner who ive been with for close to 7 years and reside in Coffs Harbour N.S.W.
Was there a reason you started FIFO? I.e. deposit for a house, lifestyle. Or where you single what was your reaction when telling women about your roster? Did you talk about it before starting FIFO (as a couple) or the relationship? How long has FIFO been part of your relationship? Was there a time limit? Has that happened?
I started mostly for the lifestyle,having the same amount of leave as what you worked gives you the opportunity to travel and spend a lot more quality time with family, And i couldnt earn the same amount of money onshore.
What do you like best about FIFO?
The leave. and the people you get to know and learn from
What do you find so-so/tricky/hilariously bad about FIFO? What would change if you had a magic wand?
Being new to the industry theres not to much that annoys me at the moment. I feel quit lucky to be involved. the main thing is not being home for the family and certain occasions but the leave makes up for that.
How do you and your wife fit marriage into the balance? Do you think FIFO makes you be more romantic? Do you put more of an effort into your marriage? What do you do to maintain your marriage to keep it healthy? (ie communication, date nights)
I think its made our relationship stronger. Were lucky enough to be able to chat and skype every night, and just knowing we have the time to do all the stuff we want to when Im home puts it all in to perspective.
Do you find you have trouble balancing your time off ie. You, wife and kids
Not really, i seem to be able to get everything sorted while spending time with the people i want to.
How do you handle fitting back into routine? Dealing with discipline?
Its hard at first, but after a few days you get back into your routine and the goes by quick enough if you keep yourself busy and having a great crew helps.
How do you stay connected to your family when you’re away? Do you think the kids are okay with you going to work?
My sons 2 so he doesnt really understand and my daughter is only a month old But we chat every night over the phone or skype if its available.
Do you get lonely on the rig? What’s the toughest time for you? (If there is one)
Not really, Just the fact you cant be there if your family might need you can get a bit tough
How do you manage life away do you have a routine sleep, eating, exercise and personal space issues on the rig
I just need that relax time and to do something non work related ie. Movies Books Games etc.
What’s the most surprising thing your partner has managed whilst you’re away? ( This question is very much optional but public bragging about your partner is such a nice thing..)
To not spend all the money! No she does really well looking after everything.
What advice would you give to newbie’s about coping with FIFO?
Keep things in perspective and keep an eye on the big picture only time will tell if its the right thing for you and your family
Thanks Fred
Ps..incase your wondering hoot was a gift from the rig to fred on the birth of his second child..thank you again fred..
XX Deb
